The reason for his father's request is multifold. First of all, it saddens the father to see his son—it is awkward and forced, they have no privacy, and it underscores how very limited their relationship with one another has become. Second, the father knows that the situation is difficult for his son. He knows that the boy is trying to be brave but that it is very difficult for the boy to do so. He knows that the boy misses him and that seeing him in jail makes the pain more acute. Third, there is an element of humility in the boy seeing his father locked up, with no privacy, no freedom and at the mercy of people such as the mean jail guard. The father undoubtedly does not want his son seeing him like that, especially since no one in jail can be a real father or a real role model. Fourth, he knows that he will not be in jail after he is convicted and is not sure what his fate will be after that. He does not want to be asked questions he cannot answer and does not want to be in the position to make promises he might not be able to keep. The boy's father wants the boy and the rest of the family to remember him as he was before he got arrested, not the way he is after.