When he rose to power, Essex was only 21, while Elizabeth
was 54. Despite the age gap, however, their relationship was a
romantic one. Over the years, the story of Elizabeth and Essex
has been repeated as a tumultuous romance second only to that between Elizabeth
and Leicester. When Essex disobeyed her in Ireland, Elizabeth
was characteristically upset about the money his delay had wasted:
especially with her reserves now dwindling, Elizabeth, always thrifty,
wanted Essex to attack immediately, get the invasion over with,
and come home, incurring as little cost as possible. Essex, distantly
related to the Plantagenet line, the Tudors' traditional opposition-family,
hoped to cash in on his obscure claim to royalty with his poorly
thought-out rebellion.
An old story states that Elizabeth once gave Essex a ring,
saying that if he ever fell into her disfavor, he could send her
the ring and receive a pardon. The story claims that he tried
to send the ring in his last days, but that his enemies intercepted
it, tragically preventing Elizabeth and Essex from reconciliation.
Although the story has romantic appeal, there is probably little
truth to it: after all, to give Essex the liberty to do whatever
he wanted free of consequences was not in keeping with Elizabeth's
lifelong caution and paranoia.
At the very end of her life (after 1601) Elizabeth did
start to show signs of senility, though of course no one was willing
to correct the Queen's mistakes. Some people suggest that her
rapid decline before her death was the product of her own will--that
she knew she was getting too old to rule effectively any more and
thus allowed herself to die. Thus although her old age and declining
health had allowed the English people to foresee her death for
many months, Elizabeth's passing was nonetheless greeted with a
period of great national mourning: the great Queen had ruled England
with wisdom and skill for nearly half a century.