Self-described as hard and demonstrating a vitality unusual for his age, Cabot is a difficult and often unpleasant person to those around him. He professes that no one has ever known or understood him, even though he’s been married three times. He prefers the company of his cows to that of people, and it becomes clear that he makes little effort to understand others. He is resentful of his sons and often insults them for being dumb and soft, especially Eben. He is protective of his farm and would rather not have to leave it to anyone; in fact, it seems his greatest desire is to avoid death altogether. He loves the farm but also sees it as his lot in life, a hard existence thrust upon him by a hard God. He is religious and prays often, and he believes that the only way to be close to God is through suffering. The idea that all humans are sinners seems to be at the root of Cabot’s beliefs and deeply influences how he views others.  

Although his outward personality is often gruff and cruel, he does show moments of tenderness to Abbie, and he is excited by the idea of the son they might have together. In spite of never showing love for his current children, he is still hopeful that a new son could signal a new chapter and a better life. He has moments of hope and vulnerability, but he quickly reverts back to feeling resigned to his dull, difficult life.