Although Wilson faced many challenges as President, he
never neglected his duties as husband and father. His greatest
source of strength had always been his family. Whether he was battling alumni
at Princeton, taming Republicans in Congress, or arguing with Germans
abroad, Wilson always found his home and his family to be his retreat,
a place where he could escape from the battle lines and action.
His home in the White House was no different. Wilson's wife, Ellen,
was not only an intelligent, fun-loving companion, but an astute
homemaker as well. Just as she had at Princeton and during Wilson's
tenure as Governor of New Jersey, Mrs. Wilson made sure the White
House was cheerful and happy. Although Mrs. Wilson did not enjoy
large social gatherings in her home, the house was usually filled
with music and laughter and dancing when the family of five was
together. The family attended Sunday services regularly at the
Central Presbyterian Church in Washington, D.C.
By the time Wilson become President, his three daughters
Margaret, Jessie, and Eleanor had already grown to become young
ladies and were soon attractive additions to Washington society.
Mrs. Wilson noted the gentlemen that would frequently visit the
family, and before Wilson had served two years as President, two
of his daughters had been married in the White House. Jessie wed
Francis B. Sayre on November 25, 1913, and Eleanor married Secretary
of the Treasury William G. McAdoo in May of the following year.
Life for President Wilson, however, was not without hardship.
In the summer of 1914–in the midst of Wilson's struggles in Mexico and
Latin America and as World War I was just beginning to erupt in
Europe–Mrs. Wilson became ill from tuberculosis. She died from kidney
failure on August 6, 1914. Funeral services were held in Rome,
Georgia, the town where the two had met decades earlier. The President
was devastated and grieved deeply for months. To escape the pain,
he immersed himself in his Presidential duties. He rose early each
morning, worked straight through the day, and then continued working
well into the night. He lost the will to live entirely, believing
himself to be only a shell of a man after his wife's death.
In the end, it was family that kept Wilson alive. His
eldest daughter, Margaret, who still lived in the White House with
him, helped nurse him back to health. The grief eventually abated,
and Wilson regained his outlook on life. By the summer of 1915,
in fact, he had even fallen in love again. Wilson met Mrs. Edith
Galt, the widow of a Washington jeweler, earlier that spring. Interestingly,
their meeting that March was not their first: Mrs. Galt had once
seen Wilson in a New Jersey parade during his brief term as Governor.
At the time, she had noted his striking presence, but had made
nothing of it. By 1915, however, that had completely changed. When
he was not steering the nation clear of world war, fighting a miniature
war in Mexico, or pushing his New Freedom reforms through Congress, Wilson
spent his time writing love letters to Edith and sending her fresh
flowers every day. The two married on the December 18, 1915. In
finding new love, Wilson had also found new vigor.
With the 1916 election year fast approaching, Wilson began
to evaluate his personal strength as President and the Democratic Party's
strength as a whole. His conclusion: neither was excellent. By
this time, many of Wilson's critics had begun attacking him as
a cold and unfeeling man. True, Wilson conducted himself with a
certain rigidity and self-righteousness that many others lacked,
but he was by no means heartless. His enemies also attacked him
for not having responded more harshly to the American deaths on
the Lusitania. Additionally, the Democrats had
lost much of their support from their more progressive members.
Wilson believed that in order to be reelected, he had to accomplish
three things: adhere to the public's demands for only moderate
preparation for war with Germany, reunite the Democrats and the
progressives, and finally, reaffirm his intentions to remain out
of the Great War in Europe.
Wilson set out to accomplish each of these three tasks.
He did prepare the United Sates for war, but only in moderation
and without fully arming the country. He increased the size of
the military and reserves. He also pushed for more progressive
legislation to be passed: he succeeded in establishing an eight-hour
working day for railroad workers, a national child labor law, and
a worker's compensation program for federal employees. The Democratic
campaign slogan during the 1916 election year was "He kept us out
of war." Wilson's Republican opponent, former Supreme Court Justice
Charles Evans Hughes, was not as successful as Wilson in accomplishing
those goals that Wilson deemed so vital. Although Hughes and the
Republicans agreed that the United States must remain out of the
war, his policies were not progressive enough and by this time,
neither were his party's.
