first error, and the worst, lay at her door. It was foolish, it
was wrong, to take so active a part in bringing any two people together.
It was adventuring too far, assuming too much, making light of what
ought to be serious—a trick of what ought to be simple. She was
quite concerned and ashamed, and resolved to do such things no more.
These are Emma’s reflections after Mr.
Elton proposes in Chapter 16, revealing to
her that she was wrong in thinking him attached to Harriet. Though
Emma is never totally cured of her impulse to make matches for others,
here she rightly diagnoses what is wrong with her matchmaking. Courtship
should be serious and simple; it should flow naturally from spontaneous
affinities and affection between two people. In the novel, courtship
rarely follows these guidelines. Mr. Elton’s courtship of Emma is
marked by the artificiality and ostentation of his compliments,
which reveal his underlying lack of real feeling for her. Frank
and Emma’s flirtation is light and elaborate in its wit, again signaling
us that they are not truly meant for each other. At the end of the
novel, Mr. Knightley’s direct and simple proposal embodies the ideal